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Which parenting model did we use to get them to listen to us and grow up to be happy, healthy, successful adults you’d want to hang out with? Keep…
Mar 26, 2023
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Logical Consequences are great. Here's how they can go wrong and how to make them better.
Our granddaughter, a jammed vacuum, and the consequence that were logical to us, but not to her
Mar 2
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Natural Consequences: What they are, why you should use them and how to do it right
Singing the praises of natural consequences
Feb 24
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Harness your kid's drive for mastery
Use what video game developers know about motivation to help your kids succeed
Feb 17
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Entitlement, rudeness, and your kids.
Feb 3
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Swimming: Teach your kids the easy way
Jul 30, 2023
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When Mom says No Phone and Dad buys one anyway
Aug 6, 2023
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"Spare the rod, spoil the child..."
Feb 19, 2023
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What's the key to your kid's online safety?
Hint: it's not government regulation
Feb 10
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Entitlement, rudeness, and your kids.
How to inoculate your kids against the rising tide of incivility
Feb 3
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Is your kid's device use jeopardizing their future happiness?
Devices, Opportunity Cost, and Your Kid’s Social Skills.
Jan 28
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Fear is a catalyst for growth
Create confident kids by helping them overcome their fears
Jan 21
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Want your kid to succeed? Here's a meta-skill they need to master
Teach your kid to create systems and harness the power of positive emotions to consistently get what they want.
Jan 14
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Meaningful
Our word of the year for 2024
Jan 7
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2023 Roundup
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Dec 31, 2023
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